Young children do well with short, clear instructions and songs they recognise. Older children want more hits, dancing together and a game with a little suspense.
That is why we ask for the ages in your enquiry. A mix of younger and older children can work when the DJ knows who is in the room. A wide age gap is often easier in separate blocks. We do that more often at a school party. A birthday party is usually one age group.
Send song requests the DJ can use
A short list of favourites often tells us more than a three-hour playlist. Include the song title and artist, plus why it matters: a birthday favourite, a class anthem or a dance everyone knows. Mention any music you would rather avoid, too.
The DJ uses those wishes when preparing and responds to the group during the show. A request list is not a fixed running order or a promise to play every song. Want a particular opening or closing moment? Agree that separately. Enquire about your date with your date, the children’s ages and your music ideas.